Friday, 18 February 2011

San Valentine’s “irritation”



 

Daniel made his debut as Toastmaster at the Tuesday 15th February 2011 meeting, and gave us a strong and positive message: “Treat the other as you like to be treated”. What was funny is that this fundamental principle can have some reverse side when San Valentine’s Day arrive and roses appear at home. San Valentine’s day can go together with the word of the day, “irritation”. As it was a very personal view, I leave the topic here, and the reader can follow the story in his/her own way. Daniel was quite brave taking the role, because he was “invited“ to take it on the very same day, due to a last minute cancellation.

Our neighbors downstairs at Casa Orlandai this time were a mediation group. Difficult cohabitation of one group (meditation group) that creates silence and introspection as a purpose of having personal development together, with another group (us, the Toastmasters!) which create laughs, applauses, noises and voice projection with the same purpose of having personal development together.

Quite a number of guests! As Phil, the SAA, is very strict with not allowing anybody going in when the meeting has started, the late arrivals slipped into the room through the back door silently, and final attendance number never is clear.

Topic Table Master Florian was challenging as usual. The first speaker was myself, and afterwards Marian, Manuel (a daring guest!), Claudia and Dale (DTM!). The speaker had to choose a structure: /one, two, three/, /god, better, best/, /past, present future/ or … /changing the subject/. And the topic was a word chosen at random from the Toastmaster magazine.

Speeches were stimulating, practical and suggestive

Stimulating, because Peter explained that “Lady Luck” is always there waiting for us. Peter’s speech was the Competent Communication Manual #8 - Get Comfortable With Visual Aids.  

Practical, because Dima’s speech “There’s no such thing as a small...”  made evident that all we have too much clothes in our wardrobes and told very sophisticated technique to adapt what we need with what we have. (“Competent Communication Manual #8 - Get Comfortable With Visual Aids” )

Suggestive, because Tulia told a nice tale “The Knight in Rusty Armor”, arousing emotion while telling the story as a speech (Storytelling #4 - The Touching Story)

Xavier (DTM!), Carol and Arthur where the constructive evaluators.

Our President Tulia addressed some business club: people to take part on the March contest! And a new challenge proposed by Are Governor, Kai, explained by Dima: a contest in Spanish language for all Spanish clubs!

Edith put order as General Evaluator with her professional and DTM’s capacity to influence. Ignasi (Ah-counter) was very original counting and reporting the use of fillers, because he counted in cents of Euro instead of units of words. As each filler added up 5 cents and each use of the “word of the day” subtracted 5 cents from the total, final figures were a little bit confusing. All had to pay, but Dale made money from it (0 fillers + several words of the day) We have to work a little bit more the system, and of course we need the pig-saver to keep the money collected!  Bettina made her debut as Timekeeper, and she had a perfect control of the times (all speakers and evaluator reached the red light!), and Mathew made his debut as Grammarian. He found things to improve on all the speakers!

Till the next!

Alvaro http://blog.prestigiousspeakers.com

Wednesday, 2 February 2011

OMmmmmm..... OMmmmmm.....



 

 No claps!

 

What an inconvenience for Toastmasters!

 

Clapping is our way of cherishing, motivating and thanking our speakers and leaders (despite of Florian always insisting that we should never "thank the audience")

 

But also a way to make us to feel good in our own private "Hall of Fame"!

 

This time we had the surprise of having a "meditation group" in the room below, and they asked us to "please keep it quiet"!

OMmmmmmmmmmm....... OMmmmmmmmmmmmm...

 

Lately we have been "tested" quite often in our ability to be creative, flexible and to use our spontaneity (the word of the day!) to handle the meetings!

 

Once again, we managed! Through everyone's collaboration and proactiveness.

 

Without any further ado, let's go to the meeting.

 

Phil, our SAA told me at the beginning, only 19 confirmed!

Only!?

 

Well, it didn't last too long to realise that we would have a packed meeting.

Over 40 in the end. More than 10 guests!

 

Great!

 

As the President I had the pleasure to introduce and welcome the two new members of our Prestigious Speakers team: Bettina and Mathew!

Welcome onboard guys!

 

The evening was led by the experienced and entertaining Florian Mück!

He led us through the evening explaining each section of the Agenda, and introducing every leadership role and speaker precisely and humourously.

 

The Table Topics Master was Josefin Berg, and she played around with "Subjects" and "Action". 

Asking her TT Speakers to deal with a situation where they had to choose an unknown tool to fix something.

Using the following structure:

How would you fix XXX  with YYY!???

Where X would be the "subject" and Y the "Action"

Coming up with funny situations as"

How would you fix a Hole with a Gavel?

How would you fix a Bulb with a Toilet empty roll?

And more...

Bettina and Mathew had their "baptise on cold blood" as they were called for the Table Topics experience.

Well done guys! Very brave!

 

For the prepared the speeches, what can I say?

They were absolutely great and entertaining.

One of those evenings when all the speeches are very well delivered and touch everyone's heart with their contents.

 

Ignasi Buch talking about a "lost friend" which was always in his heart. And after 12 years he had the great surprise to meet his friend again, and realised that they were closer than ever! 

Claudia Cano telling us how she grew through her life from a moment where she was afraid of opening the doors life had put on her path, to another level where she had to choose between 2 or more doors, should I stay or should I go?,  to the moment where she finds herself now. 

Where she has no hesitation in opening the doors life brings to her. And telling us how wonderful, enlightening and challenging is to open, and cross those doors!

Also, our Toastmaster of the Evening, Florian Mück, delivered a "simulation" of a Radio Talking Show, where he was interviewed by Brenda Franks,  for the release of his book "The Seven Minutes Star".

Being Florian creative and an "on spot" person, we all have to agree that his interviewer, Brenda, gave him a bit of "hard time". 

Asking him precise and straightforward questions about his subject.

Well done for both of them! Great performance, great delivery, and great entertainment to all of us.

 

Not going into the evaluations. Just adding that they were again honest, motivating and constructive.

Adding value not only to each speaker learning process but also a great demonstration to the guests of what is a constructive feedback.

 

For Club Business I had a surprise, which was voted in favour. Therefore it will be introduced and applied from the next meeting onwards.

I'll be pleased to present you Mr. PS aka Pig Saver!

He will be the new Prestigious Speakers member, and will be part of the Evaluation team.

He will be working close to the Ah-counter collecting 5cents for every single "filler word" any of the participants might use throughout the meeting!

However, Mr. PS is generous and fair. He will also give you a credit against your debits for every word of the day you might use.

There you go guys! Watch out for your fillers!!!

We don't want Mr. Pig to become too fat! :-).

 

Oh... what are we going to do with this money?

Well, it is up to you!

It could be used for our Xmas Party.... it could be used for charity.... ideas welcome...

By Xmas we'll decide based on how much weight Mr. Pig will have!

 

That is all from me!

 

See you on the 15th!

 


"Leaders do not avoid, repress, or deny conflict, but rather see it as an opportunity. W. Bennis "

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Tulia Lopes
President
Prestigious Speakers Barcelonahttp://blog.prestigiousspeakers.com